We hover. He is tired after work. He let me do, gratefully accepts every treat by me. But he doesn’t act.
I am reducing my action because of these and in the end we both vegetate in the same place with any commonalities.
This may be the worst case.
But yesterday he insisted on watching a movie, and another afterwards. Today he will work quite long and I plan to meet my friends in the evening. There is no time for us. I already miss him, feel left alone.
If he likes me why there is no impulse to comfort me, do something nice for me? He is still the same, always taking.
I am afraid to loose him if I copy his behave and concentrate more on my own person. But it is not good for my, my psyche to always be considerate of him while he acts like he is the most important person in his world.
It is necessary that I feel important too! I really need him to do things for me.